Is there really such thing as being too ambitious? I’m female mid 20s, was on a date last night with a man the same age. He asked what I thought was my best trait. I said my ambition and drive. He then told me i’m too ambitious and he doesn’t want a woman too ambitious because he’s also ambitious. For context I work in healthcare, currently studying a postgrad degree and thinking about pursuing a PhD. I’ve pretty much planned out exactly where I want to be in the next 5 years. My career is just something very important to me. He also has a high income career so i’m not sure why he would say that to me? His explanation was that people who are too ambitious neglect their personal relationships. Which makes no sense